Sacred Deposits Hardcover™
The framework the workbook applies. Read first, then practice.

Workbooks · 8 Sessions
Eight guided sessions for couples, small groups, and pre-marriage cohorts. The framework, turned into practice you can do together — on the couch, in a class, or with a counselor.
The Workbook is not a homework book. It is the language of Sacred Deposits™ turned into practice you can actually do together — in eight unhurried sessions.
Each session opens with a short teaching, moves into two reflection prompts (one for each spouse), and closes with a shared exercise that names what was deposited and what is still owed. Lay-flat binding. 7×10 format. Generous margins for the handwritten kind of honesty.
Designed for couples on the couch. Used by counselors. Adopted by churches running premarital cohorts and small groups.
The Ledger You Both Inherited — naming what was deposited (and overdrawn) before you ever met.
Honor — the first deposit. Learning to speak about your spouse the way you want them spoken about.
Gentleness — the second deposit. Hard truth, soft delivery.
Attunement — the third deposit. The discipline of noticing before you are asked.
Repair — the fourth deposit. The five-minute conversation that closes a five-year wound.
Compound Tenderness — the fifth deposit. Small kindnesses, made habit.
The Anti-Patterns — ten silent withdrawals. The check-in that names what is eroding.
The 5:1™ Ratio — building the practice that protects the years ahead.
Pairs With
Couples reading Sacred Deposits™ together. Small groups walking through the framework as a season. Counselors and pastors using the Workbook as the structured implementation layer for clients. Pre-marriage cohorts who want a framework the marriage can return to in year three, in year nine, in year twenty-one.
| Format | 7×10 paperback, lay-flat binding |
| Pages | ~180 pages, generous writing margins |
| ISBN | 979-8-9952505-2-4 |
| Sessions | Eight, ~60-90 minutes each |
| For | Couples · small groups · premarital cohorts · counselors |
| Companion to | Sacred Deposits — Hardcover |
| Release | May 25, 2026 |
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$16.99 · ships May 25, 2026