The Five Deposits Score
Where Honor, Gentleness, Attunement, Repair, and Compound Tenderness are compounding — and where they are running thin.
The annual review every marriage needs and almost no marriage runs. Sixteen questions. Eight minutes. One year of clarity.
The EWD-1™ — the Emotional Wealth Diagnostic, Instrument One — is the structured read on where your marriage is compounding and where it is quietly costing you. Built around the Five Deposits™, the anti-patterns, and the Silent Withdrawal Index™.
The instrument scores six dimensions — each tied to a framework, each tied to a year-ahead protocol.
Where Honor, Gentleness, Attunement, Repair, and Compound Tenderness are compounding — and where they are running thin.
The reading on what's quietly being withdrawn without anyone signing for it — the most predictive of the framework's measures.
How quickly your marriage returns to rupture. The single strongest predictor of long-term compounding.
Which of the ten Anti-Patterns™ are showing up most often — and which are dormant.
The emotional atmosphere of the marriage on average — safety, warmth, and the disposition toward repair.
What patterns you brought into this marriage from prior generations — named so the cycle can end with you.
Every marriage needs a structured year-ahead conversation. Almost none of them run one.
Run the EWD-1™ once a year — on your anniversary, on New Year's Day, on the date Yvonne ran it (May 25). Compare year to year. Watch what compounds.